What is ME ?
M.E. Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, is also known as CFS – Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
You feel so rotten generally that even if there was cheque for $1,000,000 on the path outside with your name on it you would not have the energy to physically go outside and pick it up, let alone bank it!
Dawn Symons. Author “It’s All About ME”
Who gets M.E.?
M.E. can affect anyone who finds themselves, long term, in physically/ emotionally demanding situations. It is a mixture of personal or professional exhaustion; it is a result of disillusionment with other people, the organisation which you work for or your career, over the long term. Sadly, ME can also spill over into your personal life, negatively impacting your well-being as well as your relationships with friends and family. ME occurs (frequently) following a nasty (or repeated) bout of a flu-like virus.
What Causes ME?
No-one (at the time of writing this) truly knows exactly what causes M.E. I believe there are several ‘combinations’ of ‘basic’ physical AND emotional (life) factors which trigger it. Physical factors include:
- A virus or other infection
- Adrenal Fatigue
- Central nervous system and hormone abnormalities
- Genetic Factors
- Immune system abnormalities
- Exposure to toxins
People experience M.E. for a variety of reasons:
- A lack of recognition for your work.
- A lack of time and control over your personal (or work) life.
- An excessive work load.
- Backlog of uncompleted tasks (at home or work).
- Financial worries: love the job but there’s not enough money.
- Having little or no support from your partner, family, manager or organisation.
- Having unclear goals or job expectations.
- High prolonged ‘extreme Stress’ levels often a blend of personal stress, physical illness/ pain, emotional turbulence, physical pressure.
- Relationship difficulties.
- Tedious or boring work.
- The need to earn more money
- Working alone, freelance, self-employed.
- Working in a dysfunctional team or organisation.
Please consider for a moment, how does M.E. affect you:
- At home?
- In your job?
- In your body?
Other symptoms of M.E.
- Blaming others for your mistakes.
- Blaming others for causing you to feel as you do.
- Considering resignation or changing roles (relationships to jobs) which you normally enjoy.
- Distancing yourself emotionally from your colleagues, family members or clients.
- Dreading going to work and wanting to leave once you’ve arrived.
- Excessive amounts of coffee, sugar and salt.
- Experiencing physical symptoms such as insomnia, headaches, frequent flu-like viruses, achy muscles.
- Feeling empty with little or no energy.
- Feeling overwhelm.
- Feeling that your life/work is meaningless, and that your contribution goes unrecognised.
- Having a negative, judgmental attitude at work.
- Irregular sleeping patterns, insomnia.
- Feeling irritable with loved ones, friends, colleagues, peers or clients.
- Regular or increasing absenteeism from work or regular leisure activities.
Whether we work to provide for our family or for ourselves, the drive, the motivation/passion is the same. M.E. affects highly driven, passionate people. Once family, peace and security are compromised, then ‘fix it, make it work’ types of thoughts and actions go into overdrive.
How does M.E. affect you – longer term?
Clearly, the consequences of M.E. can be severe. The likelihood is that it will have a ‘dramatic’ impact on the quality of every relationship you have, especially with personal/ family/ loved-ones. At work your productivity can drop dramatically, not only impacting your career, but affecting your organisation negatively, as well.
Can YOU recover from M.E.?
Yes! You can get your energy back, live life to the full and be happy again. I did, and if I did so can you! Find out ‘How to recover from M.E.’ below… A PRACTICAL GUIDE FOR A HEALTHY BODY AND MIND When you become embroiled in extreme stress and burnout, one of the biggest difficulties is that is that on the surface you appear to be ‘normal’, healthy and well. Loaded popular beliefs that Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME) does not exist, along with labels such as hypochondriac, attention seeker or lazy, do little to resolve the emotional conflict of this crippling disease. What I know for sure is that there are things that you can do… I know this to be true because I had to find and do them myself. I wrote this book because I burned out 3 times. Frantically chasing a solution for my problems made things even worse. But after many long years I found a solution which is the exact opposite of frantic…